I’ve always loved live music. Perhaps it
was my father's influence, I was taken to gigs from the age of ten. I got to see
some really amazing bands like the Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd and Santana (and
due to my amazing ability to nag my poor dad into pretty much anything… Kylie
Minouge).
Later, when I had my own money and a
passion for discovering new music, I went to at least a gig a week. I loved the
atmosphere and the way the crowd responded to the music. I loved the way the
set progressed, the way the band interacted with each other and the way they
spoke to us. The applause at the end! The encore! I loved listening to the
excited chatter as the crowd dispersed and discussing the highlights with my
friends.
Last week I went to a gig in Sydney
with my good friend Sal and a couple of her mates. It
had been a while since my last gig and I felt a little rusty, I didn’t know
what to wear. I forgot to listen to the band’s latest album (gig revision, very
important if you like to sing along). To be honest, I felt like somebody’s mum…
Was it always this loud, I wondered?
I chatted to Sal, or rather, I
pretended to. I’ll be honest, I couldn’t hear a word she said over all
the noise coming from the stage. I smiled and nodded hoping that I’d reacted
appropriately and she hadn’t in fact asked me what we’d done for Christmas.
I drank some water (I know, I was at a gig,
I should have had a beer in my hand, but it’s dry January!) and tried not to
sound like the old lady I’ve turned into by saying things like…
“Gosh, they are ever so loud!”
And
“It’s already passed my bed time! I hope I
can last till the end”
Maximo Park are a British band with four albums
under their belt. I first fell in love with them when I saw them at Reading
Festival in 2006. They have soulful gut wrenching lyrics and upbeat poppy rhythms.
Their music speaks to me. Or at least it did… in those years I felt adrift, and
alone.
They kept me company when I travelled the
world and formed part of a sound track to my travel diary. Some of their songs
remind me of the far flung place I first heard them in. Of people I thought I’d
forgotten. Of landscapes seen from buses and trains blurring through a window.
“I’m
going missing for a while, I’ve got nothing left to lose”
For a moment I was that girl again. Twenty something. Carefree. Thin!
It was a great night. Maximo Park were just
as I remembered them… passionate, lively, engaging… They haven’t changed at
all.
But I sure have!

Brilliant post. Love your passion for music, I feel like that about so many bands and can place them at various points in my life like a timeline ... and well done on the dry January!
ReplyDeleteDon't say well done yet - it's only the 9th! Will power pretty good at this stage, so hopefully I'll make it to the end of the month :-)
DeleteHow wonderful, Catherine! There's nothing like seeing live music to make you feel young and soulful! So glad you had a fabulous time. I've never heard of Maximo Park - might have to check them out.
ReplyDeleteThey have a wonderful song called Acrobat.. that's a good one to start with.
DeleteI haven't been to a gig in ages. I think the last one was U2 two summers ago. I was in a brace for my pelvis, but determined to see them. I felt old and falling apart, but when hubby lifted me up and I saw Bono run out I felt and cried like a sixteen year old again ;)
ReplyDeleteI love live music but I love bed too. They don't work well together :) I recently went to a concert with MrsBCsHouseofChaos and it was fun. Rachel xx
ReplyDeleteBack in days of yore it was all about The Cure for me. At High School I broke the record for the number of time "The Cure" could be written on a pencil case. When they played Vivid Live at the Opera House (was it 2010?) I didn't want to go. Robert Smith hasn't changed but I have. Then I heard it was a "kick ass" gig. D'oh!
ReplyDeleteGlad you've still got your groove.
Before child, I was a huge 'gig goer'. We spent 7 years in Leeds and saw some of the most amazing gigs and festivals. I still try to go to gigs every now and then, but it's really only once a year. And festivals? They are a,ways the hottest day of the year and I walk around thinking "I'm too old for this shit" :)
ReplyDeleteI was a big festival goer in my twenties, not sure I could cope with the portaloos now though!
DeleteI haven't been to many concerts. I got dragged along to Hilltop Hoods when I was a teenager, and saw Pink at her last concert in Australia. Mr M has bought tickets to Ed Sheeran for my birthday next month. I always wanted to go to the music festivals but even though I'm only in my early twenties, I feel way too old for them. I find myself looking at all the pics on Facebook and telling the girls to "put some clothes on"!
ReplyDeleteI took my 11 year old to big boi at the enmore, and as we were picking up our tickets, a seedy looking guy in a hoodie circled us. I hugged my handbag closer. He eyed us off and returned to his friends, saying in a horrified voice "she's got a kid with her!" So I was an old lady AND a mum at a concert!!!!
ReplyDeleteLolololol!
DeleteIt's great that you took your 11yo! I wonder if my mum and dad had stuff like that happen when they took my sister and I.
DeleteI used to manage an artist. I lived in venues and breathed gigs....now? I'm in bed early and I find gigs loud!!
ReplyDeleteYep, it's happened to me too.
This year for Christmas I asked for us to go to one cracking gig together this year......I'll let you know if I'm conspicuous!
Yes please do!
DeleteWe saw Radiohead a few momths ago, Mrs Illiterate was 5 months pregant, uncomfortable and tired. We drank water and ate icecreams in the back row ofthe entertainment centre. We didn't do pre-gig warm up beers or go out afterwards - life is certainly different
ReplyDeleteLove Radiohead. I've only seen them once, but they were awesome. It's weird going to a gig and not having a beer first isn't it? I'm hoping that when the kids are older and we're no longer sleep deprived we'll get a second wind and get back into it. Perhaps it's wishful thinking.
DeleteGood for you for doing dry January. I usually do it too, from mid-Jan to mid-Feb when the birthdays in this family start. One week till D Day. (D for dread?)
ReplyDeleteI'm actually really enjoying it. I feel like I have more energy and patience. I think when I do start drinking again I'll try and stick to weekends.. easier said than done though!
DeleteMan, I smiled and nodded through this. I mean, live music *IS* loud. I couldn't hear my friend at the MOVIE THEATER the other day because I thought it was too loud!? How old have *I* gotten!?!?
ReplyDeleteThe last 'gig' I went to was The Wiggles so you are one up on me! You are rock and roll!!
ReplyDeleteAre you saying that the Wiggles aren't rock and roll? my 3yo would disagree :-)
DeleteI. Ant for the life of me think of the last gig I went to!?? In my younger days, I would to off to see "someone" every weekend! Now, I am just too tired!
ReplyDeleteI love live gigs but yes, they can be loud! My ears tend to ring for a whole night after. Last one I went to was The Living End and they rocked the house. :) Hopped over to your blog from IBOT.
ReplyDeleteI think next time I need some ear plugs to soften it a bit :-)
DeleteYep I have super sensitve hearing ears now, I can't believe how loud they play music in nightclubs, last time I went out (months ago) I was just astounded at the noise of it all. Glad you had a nice night though
ReplyDeleteHaven't been to a music gig in ages, and surely The Wiggles do not count
ReplyDeleteYour post reminded me of long gone days of scanning newspapers to see who was coming out to Australia next and how we would buy the tickets
My little one loves One Direction - it is a scary thought, but that might be my next gig :O
ohh Lucky you!! I saw them live too in the UK!! LOVE LOVE LOVE THEM!! However.. I could not stay out past 9pm.. the automatic yawns set in and I get crazy tired.
ReplyDeleteWe're never too old to rock and roll!!
#teamIBOT was here
I didn't think anyone would have heard of them over here! They are amazing, so energetic. I reckon that once the kiddies are a bit older and we're all less sleep deprived we'll get another go and rediscover gigs and life after 9pm xx
DeleteI remember thinking the same thing when I went to see Billy Corgan (Smashing Pumpkins) last year - so loud. However, I had a few beverages so soon got used to the loudness. Sounds like you got to see some amazing bands live when you were young, I'm jealous. I LOVE live music also, having seen my favourites, U2, Madonna, REM, Counting Crows, Pearl Jam, Red Hot Chilli Peppers etc (yep an Indie girl) Emily :)
ReplyDeleteI saw Pearl Jam and The RHCP too, both at festivals. Man! those were the days!
DeleteLast gig I went to was the Wiggles and somehow I don't think its quite the same! Before that it was probably Powderfinger and it was awesome. So many of those songs shaped my high school years. While I do love a good concert I have to say that stage musicals are my big thing and I haven't been to one since Mia was born. Hoping to change that though by going to see Legally Blonde in the next couple of weeks. Never seen the movie though so thinking I might have to.
ReplyDelete#teamIBOT was here!
What a great post. Oh I haven't been to a concert in forever. I am determined to see more live stuff this year. Wouldn't be hard! Just, like, one thing would be a start!
ReplyDeleteExciting! let me know who you see x
DeleteSuch a great post. Hubby and I try to attend at least one gig a year, it often means travelling to Brisbane but we love it !!!
ReplyDeleteSo glad you had a great time
I'm going to try and start going to more, it was such a big part of my life before having kids.
DeleteLOL I haven't been to a live concert in years mainly due to lack of $ but also because I'm worried I'll feel old ... sounds like I was right!
ReplyDeleteI love live music! The last performer we saw was Eddi Reader (Scottish lead singer of Fairground Attraction). She was brilliant! She has the voice of an angel and some really interesting tales to tell between songs. I must say, there was an "older audience". And I was pooped by the time it was midnight :) x
ReplyDeleteLove a post which takes us on a journey with you, thanks! And now I am off to listen to this band as I haven't heard from them. Oh dear.... been a mum for 15 years and in a musical black hole!
ReplyDeleteHubby and I have re-discovered our gig nightlife now that our older kids can babysit the young 'uns, and the funniest moment was seeing Mudhoney at the Manning Bar in december 2011. When they came onstage, and took a few minutes getting started, someone near us yelled out, "hurry up mate, its a tuesday night and I'm tired". Everyone cracked up. Being one of the original "grunge" bands meant the crowd was all older. A review that I read mentioned something about one older guy moshing who might need a chiropractor the next day, lol.
ReplyDeleteLOL, I can totally imagine that. We're all in the same boat I guess :-)
DeleteI can't remember the last time I saw any live music but I'm cool with that. I know I wouldn't enjoy it the same way I used to - I am definitely getting old and set in my ways!
ReplyDeleteI struggle to think of the last time I went to see a gig or DJ (if you don't count Hi-5)... before we had Dex for sure. Probably I Love Techno 2008 which was amazing but I felt old and very sober and oh my god was the place filthy - people were peeing up against the walls and at the end of the night the bottom of our jeans were soaked with 10cm of black goo, totally disgusting but Underworld blew the world away and I'm so glad we went.
ReplyDeleteIt would be too loud for me, and I would be very tired and grumpy! I am not a gig person.
ReplyDeleteI have only ever been to one concert, u2 in Florida. It was AMAZING!
Ha ha! I reckon I would be the same. I used to go out with a muso, and spent so many weekends at the gigs, watching them set up and do the sound checks, and then watching the crowd really get into it.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't imagine doing that now. I think my ears would hurt! :)
xx
I so totally get you! My husband and I used to be night clubber and it has been years since our last clubbing night. Last month we went to a club for the first time and I kept thinking how in the old time I wouldn't hesitate to climb to the table and dance there. I asked my husband whether he wouldn't mind I danced on the table once again, he said go for it. But somehow I felt so out of place, fat and old..yaik. I told him maybe next time when I am back to my old body weight :D
ReplyDeleteI really hope I get to dance on tables again one day.. those were the days! xx
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